What do you attract?

Do you know that feeling when you are in a relationship and all of the sudden women or men (depending on your preference) you were interested in are now wearing watches and giving you the time of day?  I have felt this.

Today, I was doing my lunch hour power walk to clear my mind and thought about that.  Recently, I was in a relationship and all of the sudden I was getting those looks from single women.  Why?  Because I was happy!  (You know, like a room without a roof happy).  I was in love.  People want what that feels like.  They want to be around it, to feel it, to touch it, to sense it.  It’s a good thing.  I’ve always tried to figure out how to project that out in my signal that I have to attract others.  This wasn't the best thinking on my part.

A natural progression is that I get asked “what do you want to attract?”  I thought about that a lot recently.  I thought long and hard and came up empty, until last Sunday morning.  I couldn’t stop writing about it.  It is summed up in 1 sentence.

BE WHO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT

Write that down!!!

You know all those things you want in a mate, be that.  I started writing using the statement “I want this…” in a mate and then turned it around to a “I will be that” to “I am that”.  This is a part of my transformation as a person to be who I want to attract.

You see that walk I took made me realize that I am not to project outward what they want to see.  I need to feel inward what I want to attract.  That “in love” aura that I had recently is just manifesting itself into “being in love with myself”.  I felt my body change physically, my face relaxed while I was thinking about being in love with myself.  My demeanor changed.  People started looking at me.  I was “Friday afternoon just before leaving work” happy on a Tuesday.

The trick is to manifest that internally, walking around being in love with who you are.   I am the sum of all my parts, good and bad, I am WHOLE.  Acceptance of myself at that inner spiritual level is the key to happiness for me.  It’s the key to me being centered, at peace and connected to the universe.  That is all I seek.  It is a journey for sure, not a destination, but being “in love” with myself is a key component and a possible centerpiece of everything I want.

If you are single and want to attract that mate of your dreams.  Do 2 things.

• Fall in love with yourself.
• Say it out loud, speak it in your internal dialogue and own it.
• Be who you want to attract.
• Write down those attributes and start peeling away the layers of the right person for you and soon you will become the right person for yourself.  It’s like magic.